Celebrating Adoption Awareness Month

November is a time to celebrate and reflect on the transformative power of adoption. Since President Bill Clinton officially designated November as National Adoption Awareness Month in 1995, this month has been dedicated to increasing awareness about adoption issues, encouraging adoptive families for youth in foster care, and emphasizing the importance of youth engagement.

For our family, adoption has always been close to our hearts. Before our final IVF implantation was successful, we came very close to adopting a child. That journey opened our eyes to the beauty and depth of adoption, and though our path took a different turn, we remain deeply connected to the adoption community.

We’re also lucky to have a few dear friends who chose adoption, and they couldn’t be happier with their decision. Watching their families grow through adoption has been nothing short of inspiring, reminding us that love—not biology—forms the foundation of family.

Whether you’re exploring adoption for the first time or are already an adoptive parent, this month is an opportunity to honor and celebrate the incredible journey that adoption represents.

The purpose of adoption awareness month

Adoption Awareness Month shines a spotlight on the need for adoptive families, especially for older youth in foster care. Thousands of children across the United States are waiting for permanent, loving homes. Foster care adoption offers these children a chance to thrive in a nurturing environment, and adoptive families have the opportunity to make a profound impact on a child’s life.

Embrace the journey of adoption

Adoption is not just a process—it’s a transformative journey. Every child, regardless of their origin story, deserves a loving and nurturing home. Here are some empowering thoughts to guide you on this path:

• "Adoption is not about how a child begins their life, but how they live their life."
• "The greatest gift you can give a child is a loving home."
• "Adoption is a family formed by the heart, not by blood." 

Adoption is a journey of growth, resilience, and unconditional love. If you’re considering adoption, know that you are stepping into an incredible story filled with endless possibilities.

Foster care adoption: a path to making a difference

Foster care adoption is a powerful way to change a child’s life while growing your family. Many children in foster care are older youth, sibling groups, or children with special needs. These kids often face unique challenges, but with the support of a loving family, they can overcome them and flourish.

If you’re exploring foster care adoption, consider these resources:

• AdoptUSKids: Provides information about adopting from foster care and lists children waiting for adoption.
• The Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption: Focuses on finding permanent homes for children in foster care.

Support and community for adoptive families

Adoption is a journey best taken with support. Whether you’re in the early stages of considering adoption or you’ve been an adoptive parent for years, connecting with others who understand your experiences can make all the difference.

• Join local support groups: Many communities offer adoption support groups where families can share experiences and advice.
• Online forums: Platforms like Facebook have groups dedicated to adoptive families, offering a space to ask questions and seek encouragement.

You're not alone. Becoming part of a community of adoptive parents can provide guidance, friendship, and understanding.

Recommended books for adoptive families

Reading about adoption can provide valuable insights and help you prepare for the journey ahead. Here are some highly recommended books for parents:

1. The Connected Child by Karyn Purvis
   A practical guide for adoptive families to build trust and attachment with their children.

2. Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge
   Helps parents understand the unique emotions and challenges of adopted children.

3. Before You Were Mine by Susan TeBos and Carissa Woodwyk
   A Christian-based book that provides hope and guidance for adoptive parents.

Adoption institutions and resources

Exploring adoption options often starts with finding the right organization. Here are some reputable adoption institutions, including Christian-focused agencies:

• Bethany Christian Services: Offers adoption and foster care programs grounded in faith.
• Catholic Charities Adoption Services: Provides adoption services for families looking to grow through faith-based support.
• American Adoptions: A nationwide adoption agency that supports both adoptive families and birth parents.
• Adoption Network Law Center: Specializes in domestic adoption and offers comprehensive support for families.

These organizations can guide you through the process while ensuring the best outcomes for both children and families.

Celebrate Adoption Awareness Month with action

This November, let’s honor National Adoption Awareness Month by learning more, spreading awareness, and supporting adoptive families. Whether through adoption, fostering, or advocacy, every effort makes a difference.

Adoption is a testament to love that transcends biology. It’s a commitment to give a child the greatest gift of all—a loving, stable home. As you consider or continue this journey, know that you are not alone. You are part of a community that celebrates the strength and beauty of families formed by heart.

Let’s work together to ensure every child finds the forever family they deserve.